Parenting and building strong families doesn’t come from constant activity or perfection, but from slowing down, resting, and creating intentional moments together. Simple practices—like sharing meals, having conversations, and inviting God into everyday life—anchor children emotionally, spiritually, and academically. By prioritizing connection and presence, parents can cultivate resilient, faith-filled families that thrive long-term.
When I was young, I loved skiing and I was pretty good at it. But I’ll never forget the day I slipped on a patch of ice at the end of a long run, in front of the lodge where hundreds of people were gathering, and I dislocated my shoulder. They say that most skiing accidents happen at the end of the day, when we’re tired and just a bit too confident.
Isn’t that so often true as parents? It’s usually when we’re worn down, stretched thin, and relying only on ourselves that we get out of balance in life. In those moments, God gently reminds us that we were never meant to carry everything alone. Jesus says in Matthew 11:28, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” During the busy seasons of life, God invites us to trade our weariness for His peace.
One of the simplest ways families can reclaim that rest and connection is by slowing down enough to be together at home. In our fast-paced culture, discipleship moments within the family have become increasingly rare. Churches offer wonderful programs for children, students, and adults, but these often focus on what happens inside the building rather than on nurturing spiritual growth within the home.
Frederick Douglass wisely said, “It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” If we take that seriously, then we must be intentional, early and often, about cultivating strong, connected families.
One of the most practical and powerful ways to do this is surprisingly ordinary: sharing meals together. Did you know research shows that a family who eats together at least four times a week, with the television off and phones put away, experiences remarkable long-term benefits. Children in these families are less likely to struggle with obesity or substance abuse, and more likely to earn higher GPAs and graduate from high school. Something as simple as gathering around the table can anchor a child emotionally, spiritually, and academically. When we slow down, sit together, and invite God into those everyday moments, the home becomes a place of healing for the family.
Just like on the ski slopes, balance doesn’t come from pushing harder; it comes from resting wisely. As we move through this season, may we remember that God’s strength is found not in our frantic pace but in the quiet, faithful moments we share—with Him and with our families.
Let’s build strong families one meal, one conversation, and one prayer at a time.